It’s been ages, don’t worry though, I’m still alive and kicking.
A personality crisis, bullshit in my theatre group, and an amazing Swedish girl with whom I have an open relationship, created a mild apathy for PUA for a while.
I was up in Café Local (Antwerp) tonight though, and all the theory came rushing back, shot neg there, block here, kino there. A bit rusty, but an old tiger never loses his stripes, I could have easily pulled with a little more finesse.
The realization dropped in tonight, I like the game and enjoy playing it, so I will, no matter what. Due to a huge lack of time however, I really can’t right now and it kills me to admit it, but I’m nowhere near the level I want to be. I’m great with the creative, artsy kind of girl, but opening and closing a complete stranger, still scares the shit out of me when I’m not in a group of fellow PUA’s.
For now, I’m gonna have to bide my time till I move to Bristol in October, between my girlfriend, work and theatre, I really don’t have much time to go out sarging, I will however get back to sending out small snippets of what I’ve learned on here. But don’t take this newbies word for everything!
Go out and experience!
The way you learn is by collecting reference experiences and evaluate them, don’t let your ego bullshit you. Take both positive and negative feedback as learning moments, be honest to yourself, when a girl rejects you don’t soften the blow and when a girl opens up, don’t treat it as nothing. Both the good and the bad, the yin and the yang, the Alpha and Omega need to be observed while playing.
Keep going, keep rocking it and you’ll get there!
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